Showing posts with label san diego. Show all posts
Showing posts with label san diego. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Go See Chuck! by Ray Shay

Go See Chuck!
By Ray Shay 

"Chuck"
Your Friendly ACE Hardware Man 
Life is full of surprises.  A dozen hours before deadline, I opened my IPad only to find my latest story had disappeared. I can't say it was great, but I spent many hours working on it and I was looking forward to sharing it with each of you.   

I'll see if our company on-call computer technician can recover the story, but maybe it is for the best.  It was an interesting story about a small town named Ferguson, Missouri.  Maybe you have heard of it. 

I purposely, did not write  about it until, Eric Holden, our US Attorney General, ruled there would not be any civil rights violations pursued  against the police officer.

I bit my tongue frequently over the last few months when people in our own master planned communities and even friends and family would complain about actions of police officers in this great country.     

Some people take just a small slice of the information pie and repeat it as the truth. Other people take it a step further and use it to justify looting and violence against innocent people. I wish there was a way for these same people to experience what it is like to run out of options.  Not like you see on television, but really be placed in a position where you are at death's door and it is either you or your aggressor who are about to fall through into the cold darkness.  
 
Maybe, it was a good thing that story disappeared. Let's talk about Chuck.   
 
I think of all the people that have touched my life and believe it or not, Chuck is one of them. First of all, I dream of being a contractor.  In reality I am not very good in home repairs. In fact, I have just enough knowledge to be dangerous.  I may have a measuring tape on my belt and I park in "contractors only" lot at Home Depot, but that is where my expertise ends.

That is where Chuck at our local 4S Ranch Griffin Ace Hardware saves me. He is the man. In years past, I tried replacing my window screens at our home. Now I just go see Chuck
This is how it works.  Take the window screens out of your home and take them to Ace Hardware and they re-screen them. Chuck is the best part of the process. He is very friendly and does most of the repairs.  He obviously takespride in his work.

Chuck was excited about being in the Eweekly.  I asked Chuck for his email and he replied, "I don't have a computer or an email."  He then reached into his pocket and pulled out a flip phone.  Wow, that said it all.

I love the guy. Chuck knows our three sons and many of the kids in the neighborhood. He has exactly the skills Ace Hardware is looking for.  He is the friendly Ace Hardware man!  

Go see Chuck and take him your torn window screens or other home improvement projects.  He will take great care of you. 

 
  
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Tuesday, October 7, 2014

The SWAT Academy by Ray Shay




Like my parents before me, Theresa and I encourage our three sons to identify and pursue their passion, regardless of what it is. I feel lucky because I always knew I wanted to be a police officer.

When I stopped by the SDPD Firearms Training Range on Friday morning, it reminded me of my passion for law enforcement.  I saw potential new SWAT (Special Weapons and Tactics) Officers
SWAT Candidate
participating in the 2014 SWAT Academy.

I could heard the large volume of gunfire as SWAT candidates were learning advanced weapons skills and I saw officers carrying their tactical gear.  They yelled, "Good morning sir" as they marched past.  

The oppressive heat accentuated the unyielding effects of gravity on each of them as they strained under the burden of their heavy tactical body armor, weapons, ammunition and other gear which all seemed to be pressing them relentlessly towards our solid brown earth.

The sweat streaming off their faces reminded me once again what it means to the few SWAT officers who will successfully graduate and are awarded the honor of wearing a shiny brass SWAT pin on their dark blue San Diego Police uniforms.

SRT Officer Brad Pickett and
 SWAT Executive Lieutenant Tina Williams

I noticed senior SRT (Special Response Team) Officer Brad Pickett was leading the training cadre.

We always called him "Bradman."  An excellent trainer and SWAT operator.  There were countless occasions where myself and other SWAT Officers worked with Brad and other team members to stop evil people who were intent on killing.

Being on a Perimeter, React or Entry Team as the door or wall of a home is breached with water backed explosive charges or feeling CS gas burning your lungs and eyes as flash bang diversionary devices were detonated, developed a certain bond between all of us.  Trusting someone with your life will do that to a person.

I felt a sense of melancholy when Brad said this would be his last SWAT Academy.  As I looked through my I-Phone viewer and took a picture of Brad and SWAT Executive Lieutenant Tina Williams, I realized how much the SWAT team has improved over the years.   
Ray back in the day...

You can tell from the photograph to the right, the quality of our equipment was historically poor.  I was using my hand held tactical mirror to peek around a corner of a wall in a training scenario at Camp Pendelton. I laugh when I see this photograph today, because that mirror was about as fancy as our equipment got and we each had to buy our own.

At SWAT missions the SEV (Special Equipment Vehicle) would roll up and pass out a limited number of helmets, gear and used Vietnam era AR-15 rifles and shotguns.  You learned to get to the Command Post early because it was like lining up at an ice cream truck in the middle of summer.  The selection of the best items dwindled quickly.  


Thanks to the support of the very generous business owners of ECHO Pacific, MOR Furniture, Citizens for SWAT Citizens for SWAT website and people like Dan Barnett, Tom Schwiebert, Padre baseball player Brian Giles and Assistant San Diego Police Chief Mark Jones, we now have one of the best equipped SWAT teams in the country.   

I visited briefly with Lt. Williams who is one of the handful of woman who ever successfully completed a SWAT Academy and like Brad she is a trusted and respected team member. Don't be fooled by her size.  Tina is an excellent XO and is a great compliment to SWAT Commanding Officer, Lt. Mark Saunders.
  
As I walked towards my car with Lt. Williams, she mentioned there are nineteen SDPD SWAT candidates and five officers from outside agencies in the academy and they had a qualification shoot later in the afternoon.  Neither of us said anything, but we both knew several of these men we saw today would likely not be around at the end of the academy.   

As the days wear on history has shown the constant stress, physical and mental demands and ability to consistently make sound decisions in difficult and rapidly changing environments results in candidates dropping on request or being dismissed from the SWAT Academy.   Patrol car
  
It was good to see that despite having improved equipment the high standards of the team are clearly intact.  After all, under all that gear is simply a person's judgement and bravery.  It is what keeps these peacekeepers and our citizens as safe as possible as they enter the unforgiving world where there are no "do overs" and the margin for error is razor thin.   

The combination of a supportive community and a professional law enforcement agency is what helps these men and women pursue their highest priority, which is always the preservation of human life.  An honorable goal that is well worth the exceptional effort being put forth by both citizens and police.   

If you are interested in golfing at our 10th Annual Golf Tournament at Maderas to raise funds for the SDPD SWAT Team - Click on the following link:
  
SDPD SWAT Golf Tournament
  
Have a great week!
  

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Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Broker's Corner - Local Housing Market Trends

Ray Shay
Broker/Owner
Shay Realtors
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The local housing market is still increasing in value, but it feels like a large train that is definately slowing down.  It is especially true for homes which are over a million dollars in value.
Where is the market headed? 
There are several causes for the slow down. In my opinion some of the main factors are increased inventory, the substantial gains we already achieved over the last few years, stagnant employment in San Diego County and there are simply only so many buyers for all these homes hitting the market.

It will be interesting over the next six months as local builders place so many new homes on the market.  Standard Pacific is a very reputable company that builds excellent homes which they stand behind. For worry free buying they are a good play.

I just hope the Fed's don't let interest rates rise.  If that happens so many buyers will be removed from equation because they cannot qualify.  That will cause such drag on the home ownership train that it could slow or even stop. If the train feels like it is on a hill it could also slide back down.  Don't hesitate to call me or stop by one of our three locations if you have any questions. 


Ray Shay 858-449-4970

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Yesterday by Ray Shay

Yesterday
By Ray Shay
9.30.14

Paul McCartney
 It was really strange standing among the throngs of people at Petco Park Sunday night listening as Paul McCartney entertained Theresa and I and over 42,000 other people.  The place was sold out and our seats were at a pretty cool location, yet it was almost an event we passed on.

Like most parents when the invitation came in our first tendency was to say, "no." Too much hassle, money, and juggling our kids on a school night.  I'm glad we decided to see Sir Paul who as a former Beatle has a
Petco Park
special place in so many people's hearts.

As he walked on to the stage he opened up with "Eight Days a Week."

After the first song, he stopped, took his guitar off and walked to the front of the stage.  He said, "I want to take a moment and drink this in."  I wondered how many wild crowds had cheered him in his lifetime and yet he still stopped to enjoy the moment.  Maybe that is one way life changes a person.  You take a moment to appreciate what you have before it is all gone.

Ray, Theresa, Jimmy and Kathy
DiMatteo with SDPD Chief of Police Shelly Zimmerman
 
The crowds, the cool San Diego night and Paul Mcartney were all amazing. When we walked into Petco Park we were fortunate to see San Diego Police Chief Shelly Zimmerman. It was the perfect place for our top cop to greet so many visitors to our fine city.   Props to her Command Staff and Special Events personnel who pulled off another flawless event. 

The best part of the show for me was when Paul McCartney sang  "Yesterday." Like many of the older people in the 
Stage at Petco Park 
stadium, I could reflect back to another place and time. A time when I was so young and my two older sisters and three brothers were all into the Beatles music. 

It also reminded me of Sgt. Peppers Lonely Hearts Cub Band, Abbey Road, and seeing black vinyl records spinning on a record player in our small home in Albuquerque, New Mexico.

The best way I could ever think of wrapping up seeing a legendary rocker like Paul McCartney is to include some of the lyrics of a song he and John Lennon wrote together.  I will never forget hearing
Sir Paul sing solo near the end of the show.  A show that we almost didn't make.

   

Have a great week, 
  

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Friday, September 19, 2014

Where is the Popcorn by Ray Shay

Where is the Popcorn?
By Ray Shay
8.19.14



  
I love our local Ace Hardware Store.  Who would not appreciate walking into a business and being greeted with a smile, an offer of help, followed by an experienced salesperson and a fast check out?  That kind of friendliness and great service seems like it is from a forgotten era.
For over fifty years Griffith Ace Hardware has offered

fresh cooked popcorn to their customers.  Locally, they have been providing popcorn for over thirteen years.  As I began to exit Ace Hardware in 4S Commons Shopping Center on Saturday,  I sensed something was missing.  I stopped and looked around for what it was.  I then realized their popcorn machine was missing in action.  



I turned to speak with two salespeople and said "where is it?" They quickly guessed what I was inquiring about and replied, "The popcorn machine? We had to shut it down.  The County of San Diego wanted all of our employees to take a food handler course, the popcorn machine had to be fully cleaned four times a day and citizens could not touch the red scooper or we would have to formally sanitize it and....(blah, blah, blah)."

I probably rolled my eyes and slightly shook my head side to side.  Ace Hardware was already on the hook if somehow someone got sick from tainted popcorn. I think Government is frequently over the top and foolishly over regulates private businesses.
No More Popcorn 

I walked out of the store only to return the following day and ask if I could at least visit the popcorn machine.  An employee led me upstairs where I found it sitting quietly and all alone in the break room.

It was unplugged with it's trademark red handle scooper sitting all alone in the empty bin.  Not to be held by a local school kid as they scooped the deliciously salty popcorn into an Ace Hardware paper bag.

Like John Belushi said in the one of the greatest movies ever made, Animal House, "Did we lay down when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor... No we did not!"  I think our thousands of Eweekly readers should speak up like "Bluto" and voice your opinion when you go to Ace Hardware.  Tell the employees, "We miss our popcorn, please bring it back!"  

Our efforts may not be successful, but this is America and we should exercise our rights. We can't let Dean Wormer's of the world take away what we love.   That just wouldn't be right.  

Have a great week.    

   



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Radar O'Reilly and the Company Bus

Radar O'Reilly and the Company Bus
By Ray Shay
8.5.14
 
Company Bus 
OK, I get it.  If your Google, Qualcomm or even NASA, it is all about the performance of your employees and who you have on your bus.  Are your employees friendly, professional, and are they the best in the business?  If not, why even pull out of the parking lot?

I found out our company bus has a little communication glitch and I don't think it is the public address system.  I have come to the realization that I may be the problem.   
Radar O'Reilly of MASH 

This became evident recently when Gretchen, our Office Manager at our 4S Ranch Community Hub location recognized a company need, made arrangements to handle it, and then told me so at the very moment I asked her to correct the problem.  
  
I felt like Colonel Potter of MASH as I looked into her crystal blue eyes and said, "way to go, Radar O'Reilly!"   Gretchen crinkled her nose and slightly squinted her eyes as she looked at me with a clearly perplexed look on her face and said, "Radar O'who?" 
 
The Amazing
 Vulcan Mind Meld  

I immediately thought what my nine year old son seems to be saying lately, "Oh my gosh."  Earlier in the week, Kevin at
our PQ Hub was training a new employee and I suggested implementing the very effective and time proven interstellar telepathic exchange of information technique called, "The Vulcan Mind Meld"

I reminded Kevin how it is accomplished by placing four fingers from my right hand to my face just like Leonard Nimoy did hoping that would spark a memory and convey how he could exchange the information to the new employee.  It was to no avail.  He just stared at me.  I think Kevin was speechless.  He gave me the same confused look as Gretchen.  I am confident they all probably think I am a lune.  
Boston
 
At our company wide meeting with about a dozen people present we talked about Pinterest, Twitter, Facebook, drone technology, international marketing and all the other modern, fancy and cutting edge stuff. I was excited that everyone was on the same page.  

I wrapped up the meeting letting everyone know that Theresa and I would be off the grid tonight because we were, "going to see Boston tonight."

The older employees responded "how cool" while at the same time, several younger ones asked, "you guys are flying to Boston tonight?"
  
I just had to laugh.  I took the time to explain there is actually a rock band called "Boston" and they were playing at Humphrey's at the Bay, in San Diego.   I think one of our favorite bands had it right as the words of one of their iconic rock songs explained,  "Don't look back, the dawn is breaking ..."    

I think we will just keep the company bus rolling forward. 

 
Have a great week.
  


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Wild Fire Re-Cap and the Robbery by Ray Shay

Wild Fire Re-Cap and the Robbery  
By Ray Shay 
5.20.14
  
wild fire
Wild Fires Strike San Diego County  
I knew things were going south last Tuesday morning when my cell phone started ringing with multiple reports of a growing brush fire in the canyon area near Del Norte High School.   
My hat is off to Gretchen and our team who sent a Community Hub eAlert within ten minutes of us hearing about the fires. Many of our readers emailed us thanking us for getting the work out so quickly. I hope it was helpful.   

The fires immediately brought back memories of other devastating wild fires in San Diego where I was the one in the blue uniform telling families their homes were no longer standing.  As strange and heartbreaking as that experience was, many of the victims appeared honestly relieved to at least know the truth. I think the waiting and not knowing, is a big part of the trauma that so many people in our area and other parts of San Diego County endured last week. 

Soon after the fire trucks started rolling into our area, I walked towards our 4S Ranch Community Hub in 4S Commons when I saw the uniformed SDPD Police Officers standing outside the Wells Fargo Bank. The bright yellow crime scene police tape was hanging loosely, blocking the bank entrance. 

I recalling thinking the bank was likely robbed because the criminals knew our local Sheriff Deputies were busy evacuating frightened families. My suspicions were soon confirmed. Once again reminding me that predators are cowards and when they see a weakness they frequently look for opportunities to attack.

As my mind drifted to the wild fires and how brave both law enforcement and firefighters always are, my mood began to sour. I was distracted thinking about the multiple fires and that an armed felon and his companions were out taking advantage of the situation.

With the fire spreading unpredictably and the bank robbery, Theresa and I both wanted one thing, which was likely the same thing many of you did. We wanted to have our kids with us.  We wanted to be "hands on."

I was going to delay picking up our three sons from their separate schools, but Theresa had other ideas.  I have learned when it's not worth arguing.

When we arrived at all three of our local schools, Del Norte High, Oak Valley Middle and Del Sur Elementary, we were met with throngs of people picking up their kids.Tensions were high as fire engines raced past and dark smoke was in the air.

I have been at countless emergency situations, but I found myself impressed with the calmness of the leadership teams at each of the schools. Yeah some kids as well as some parents were on the edge, but the occasional smile and calm reassurance form a teacher, principal or other school employee was comforting and went a long way to calming nerves.  
Word quickly spread that Stone Ranch Elementary had ordered an evacuation of their students which resulted in parents moving quickly to pick up their children from the other local schools.  

The caravans of yellow school buses mixed with emergency vehicles reminded me that there was a great deal of training and pre-planning involved in our critical incident.     

In each instance there were lots of parents and anxious children, but the calmness and professionalism of school administrators was impressive.  We personally witnessed each of the below principals actively involved in working with their staff to pull off a pretty challenging event.  
   

     

At the end of the day, with Troy, Raymond and Ryan safely in our car, I thought about the firefighters and the law enforcement officers.  I then thought about another group of heroes that rarely get accolades and the support they deserve from the community.   

They are our teachers and the principles of our local schools who day and day out deal with highly emotional and stressful situations for little pay or recognition.  

It's not the cover of Time Magazine, but for the few thousand people who read this eWeekly, it is a reminder that each of our principles including Lisa Danzer of Stone Ranch Elementary and David Gyertson of Maranatha High School are pretty special people.  


Enjoy your week,


    

Ray and Theresa Shay 

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Viking Sanwiches

Viking Sandwiches
by Ray Shay
5.6.14
    

As I swam lap after lap in the pre-sunrise darkness at Del Norte High School's amazing swimming pool, my mind drifted to memories of my mom. I don't recall if it was the upcoming Mother's Day this Sunday that triggered thoughts of her, or my private agreement with myself that whenever I swim in the ocean or enter a large body of water, I always think of her.

I usually make a point of saying, "hello." The type of hello that is off the cuff, almost as if I just walked into her busy kitchen, so many years ago.   Sometimes I can even hear the sounds of my  "hey mom" leaving my lips, while usually it's only a slight whisper in the deep recesses of my constantly busy brain.

The ocean connection with my mom comes from the lyrics one of my favorite Jimmy Buffet songs, A Pirate Looks at Forty...


Mother, mother ocean, I have heard you call,
Wanted to sail upon your waters
since I was three feet tall.
You've seen it all, you've seen it all.

My mom certainly did see it all. As for my dad, the same thing occurs when I see stars in the night sky or a Navy fighter jet fly by.

He was a Naval Aviator and for some reason he was also infatuated with Stephen Hawkins and his study of black holes in deep outer space.  Kind of funny the things you remember about your parents. Both flying and the outer reaches of the galaxy are way above my pay grade.

As I swam, I thought of my mom and of course her, "Viking Sandwiches." The swimmer in the adjoining lane is a long time family friend named "Judy" who has amazingly beautiful dark brown almond shape eyes and a smile and laugh that always puts people immediately at ease. Since Judy had the swimming cap on her head her eyes were like black diamonds sparkling away, as they reflected off the immense surface of water.

I asked Judy about her daughter who is about to graduate from DNHS. Judy said her daughter had recently told her how much she was going to miss her mom's spaghetti. Judy laughed as she explained her daughter had exclaimed, "no one makes spaghetti like you mom."  Then came the smile and that amazing laugh again. I love Judy.
I thought how freaky it was that somehow in that vast pool of chlorinated water, both Judy and I were thinking about cooking and how food makes an indelible connection between parents and their children. 
As I began swimming the remainder of my workout, I thought of my mom's own laugh and her darn "Viking" cheese sandwiches. They were legendary and not because they were perfect sandwiches, but rather because they were perfectly, imperfect.

There really was nothing quite like em. First you have to understand with seven kids to feed our mom did everything fast, so her margin of error was pretty wide. I can still see her breaking out the whole square slab of American cheese and a loaf of white bread. As she talked away she would start slicing the cheese, but it was not like a normal person. She chopped it up like a Viking Sushi Chef on crack cocaine.

She would swing the large knife down on the soft yellow block and what would result is not slices but a series of "V" shaped pieces of cheese.  My mom never stopped talking as she asked about us our day, our sports, our lives, or telling us how much she loved being a mom.  She then buttered the bread, tossed the cheese on them and grilled them up.

Oh boy, it was an adventure to eat them. Some brown and some slightly burnt. It would drive any Qualcomm engineer absolutely crazy as the tip of the V was like hot lava while the other end was still ice cold.   You had to be careful because the cold part of the cheese may stick to your teeth while the narrow part seared the roof of your mouth or your lips as you suppressed a, "$%&^ that's hot!"

With my mouth half full of cheese and the toasted buttery bread, I would often tell my mom she was like a Viking. Of course she would laugh and then be off doing a variety of chores because there was certainly no housekeeper or helper in our home.

When I was a bachelor living in San Diego my dad sent me a Joy of Cooking cook book and wrote me a little note. You can see what he wrote above.
Mom and Dad

With both my parents passing within a few months of each other, I feel so fortunate to have these memories.  It reminds me to continue building great memories with our children.  As I continued my swim and saw the yellow sun beginning to peak over the eastern mountains, I felt a sense of good fortune. 

We were lucky to have such amazing parents and that they had such a "Live On" attitude.  They would not want any of us to mourn for them.

As I hurried to finish my workout, I could only think about Judy's delicious spaghetti. I hope she reads this story one day and brings me a plate.  I bet her daughter is right. There is only one spaghetti like Judy's and I suspect her smile and laugh are a few of the essential elements that make it so amazing.


Happy Mother's Day Mom, ,


Ray

Ray and Theresa Shay 

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Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Not a Writer
by Ray Shay



Theresa and I put our three sons to bed several hours ago and here I am still sitting in the dark typing away on my IPAD.  It is only a few brief hours before both sunrise and my deadline. 

I am trying without much luck to write my eWeekly lead story.  It is simply not happening. Some may call it writer's block, but I have never viewed myself as a writer, so I'm not buying it.

I still smile when I think about walking across the shopping center parking lot in 4S Ranch when I stopped and waived for a vehicle to go past me.  The lady braked her car abruptly and stared at me for a moment before yelling out the passenger window in a loud boisterous voice, "I can't run you over.  I love your stories too much."

I still have no idea who that lady was or so many other people who have mentioned things to me about my stories.   I really don't know why people find them so intriguing.  It has honestly been a surprise to me.  

Maybe it is because I admit I'm a work in progress, my hilarious journey I love so much with Theresa and our children, or that I just share thin slices of everyday life that resonates somewhere in the psyche of others? I really don't know.   

I only started writing stories on a whim about five or six years ago.  Then it all got traction as they say and people seem to like reading them.  It has resulted in me developing a sense of responsibility.  A feeling that each week I need to provide something of value. 

In the quiet solitude in this early morning, I can only offer honesty. I just don't have it.  Though I often share slices of my life there is a much bigger pie that is rightfully kept hidden.  The things all of us keep private and choose not share.  And that too is OK. 

I wish each of you a great week and promise next week I will have a story hopefully worth your time.  In the meantime to the nice lady in the car, be patient as I will keep a keen eye out for you in hopes you will hit the break instead of the accelerator if our paths do cross.

Have a great week.


Broker's Corner
by Ray Shay

Ray Shay 
Broker
The local housing market is very dynamic and still tilted towards the seller. If you are looking for a new build in the Del Sur Community be sure to take a look at the following video.  It is of the Descanso Development of Brookfield Homes. 
 
Our team of Home Buyer Consultants provide outstanding representation in the purchase of both new and re-sale homes. Give us a call for a confidential discussion of opportunities to sell your current home and participate in our "move-up" program.
 
The Descanso location is both unique and amazing.  Take a look


Ray
Local Market Update:      
We can provide you with custom weekly reports. You will find easy-to-read graphs with statistics, and valuable information broken down into bite-size pieces about current market trends specifically for our 92127/92129 zip code. Call us at 858.449.7355 or email us today for your custom condo or single family home report.

The Mole Sez - Dangerous Intersection in 4S Ranch


Mole with Karl Strauss
Hey Boss, 
 
I hears lots of yous guys are worried about the intersection in 4S Ranch at Camino San Bernardo and Deer Ridge Rd. It's near da southwest corner of Del Norte High School where the cross walks are painted yellow across da blacktop.  Don't be fooled.  It looks like a four way intersection with stop signs all around, but it really isn't.  

Seems there has been a few car crashes there and we all know our kids cross on that cross walk. Pretty soon boss there is also going to be kids from Design 39 Campus walking across that street.

It's well, confusing to drivers of all ages because the cross traffic keeps zooming by.  There are only two stop signs and not four.  Boss, I even heard a rumor you were a bit fooled by the traffic trickery.  I was worried, so I put the word out and my uncle Jed who moved to Apple Valley to open a radiator business, sent me the below photograph and said, "Mole this might help with a plan "B" for that intersection." Jed was always a thinker.

I knows the County says "No Way" they will make it a four way stop, (though the knuckleheads  really should). I  have never been a quitter, boss but this ought to be a plan "B" as Jed told me.  That is until plan "A" of making it a four way stop can be implemented. Pretty big word for me boss.  That Bridgepoint Education on line course is helping!

Hey boss, I thinks yous guys should all forward this to the County and tell em what Uncle Jed recommended.  It's a start and it could save a life as they say.

Oh yeah, here is the info for people to call the County and go for plan "B." Americans a great country boss, tell your readers to make de voices heard!


Mole out

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Broker's Corner
by Ray Shay

Ray Shay
Broker/Owner

The latest news on local real estate by Ray Shay, Owner/Broker 
 of Shay Realtors
HOUSING SHORTAGE
There continues to be a shortage of home inventory as we approach the busy season.  It is especially tight below 800K.  If your thinking of buying or selling give me a call on my cell phone at 858.449.4970. 
PREP KITCHEN
We have four amazing Buyer's Specialists, (Amber, Kendall, Paul and Yolanda) and we are looking to hire one or two more.  What is interesting is they are so focused on home buyers that they stay up on all the latest.  The photograph is an example of their expertise.

There is a new development in the area that is building some pretty unique homes.  In addition to three car garages and cool outdoor rooms, they also have "prep kitchens" as indicated on the foundation markings below.  If you are in to looking and like the idea of some extra room to prepare for dinner, give us a call and we will hook you up! Remember that sellers always pay the commission so you get the best of the best in service for FREE!



 
Ray
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Local Market Update     

We can provide you with custom weekly reports. You will find easy-to-read graphs with statistics, and valuable information broken down into bite-size pieces about current market trends specifically for our 92127 zip code. Call us at 858.449.7355 or email us today for your custom condo or single family home report.

Gold and Blue: The Front Row
by Ray Shay

Editors note: Gold and Blue is a series of police stories which may be inappropriate for younger readers. This is a small peek behind the badge of America's Finest. 
SDPD Chief of Police  
Shelley Zimmerman 

I felt a sense of both melancholy and excitement as I stood with a good friend at the rear of the City of San Diego Council Chambers last week and witnessed the historic confirmation of Shelley Zimmerman as our new Chief of Police.     

At one point in the ceremony, "Shell" as I have called her for over thirty years, and her brother and mom turned and smiled at the overflow crowd who had filled the chambers and an adjoining waiting area. 

I returned her smile along with countless other attendees and about a dozen news crews and reporters. My eyes then traveled further down the front row where she stood alongside the other members of the San Diego Police Department Command Staff. There was more brass standing in that row than you would see at an antique road show.

I recognized all of them.  Their names are ones you have frequently read about in the newspaper or have heard in tPatrol carhe media, Executive Assistant Chief Dave Ramirez, Assistant Chief's Mark Jones, Walt Vasquez, Captains Manny Guaderrama, Joe Ramos and the list goes on. 

It seemed funny because to me they are just, Dave, Mark, Walt, Manny and Joe.  I then thought back to when we all worked together on the streets of San Diego.  I still recall that hectic sunny day in the heat of the summer when a hard core and extremely chubby street gang member with a death wish, stepped out of his home on South Gregory Street brandishing semi automatic rifles in each arm and started shooting in an ill fated attempt to kill as many police officers as possible.  

When the shooting ended, the gang member was dead and Dave had a gunshot wound to his lower leg.  Despite his injury, he never stopped fulfilling his duties as a Police Sergeant.  Looking back to that day, I can now laugh when I think about how he was cursing like a sailor, when San Diego Fire Department Paramedics were trying to convince him to get in the paramedic van and lay down.  Cops are just tough like that.  You learn early in your career never to scream in the police radio and if you are shot, you never quit. Dave successfully did both.

I also thought about Shelley (our new Chief) and her contagious smile and unbridled enthusiasm that still makes me bust up laughing.  It was hilarious seeing her in multiple undercover roles including narcotics or vice and hearing her talk about her love of family, being a police officer and of course the all important, Ohio State Buckeyes. 

Most people don't know Chief Zimmerman cut her teeth on supervising a large staff at the Indochinese storefront in the turbulent and violent Mid-City Command, where over fifty-three different languages are spoken

Shelley rarely ever took a day off despite my frequent pleadings for her to go on vacation. Besides flying back to Ohio for a Buckeye game or to visit family. she was always at work.  Her unyielding work ethic is well known among Department veterans. 

At times the City Council hearing was tedious, so I began thinking of other slices in time with members of the SDPD command staff.   I still recall the SWAT
Ron Davis
Officer Ron Davis
emergency Code 11 that brought Mark and I to a meet at a foggy parking lot in Southeast San Diego.  It was long before sunrise and Officer Ron Davis who had recently welcomed his second son into this world was shot and killed.  Ron had just stepped from his patrol car while investigating a domestic disturbance when his young life was ended.  T Davis. 

Mark and I began the process in the TOC (Tactical Operations Center) of tracking down his killer alongside SWAT XO Lt. Jim Duncan and CO Lt. John Welter.  Like many cop killers he was a coward and decided ultimately to put the period on the final sentence of his own life.  We all heard the confrontation and the accompanying gunshots less than 100 yards from the TOC.
  
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The list of critical incidents seemed endless,  weather it was fighting suspects high on PCP with Manny, SWAT emergency entries with Joe, or all the long days and nights Walt and I worked in preparing our City and the Department for the Republican National or the International Biotech Conventions, I realized there was a common thread.
This Photo was taken of the Bravo Company on the eve of the 2001 Biotech Convention. FBI Intel reports predicted we would be overwhelmed by criminal acts.  We had no issues.  
Captains Joel Bryden and Cheryl Meyers are to the left side. The San Diego Police Department photographer was Carlos Medina.  As always, the Officers did an amazing job.  
That commonality is each member of the current San Diego Police leadership team have been there in the heat of the battle when not only the chips were down, but in fact there was not a single chip left spinning slowly on the table.  Hope could have been lost several times where human life's had been taken or they still hung in the balance.  In each instance, each of these men and Shelley demonstrated courage, fortitude and love for their fellow officers as well as the citizens of our town.   

As I drove home later in the evening, I thought about that front row in the eighth largest city in these United States of America and what challenges face Chief Zimmerman and my friends who are now tasked with leading the San Diego Police Department to a better place.  An exceptional opportunity placed in their care thanks to the leadership and decisiveness of our new Mayor,  Kevin Faulconer. 

As I walked in the front door of our home in Del Sur, it took Theresa about a New Jersey second to pick up on my peculiar mood, as I thought about that darn front row.  She said, "you are always like this after going to those."  I knew immediately what she meant. 
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Honestly I love cops, what they represent, and their sense of honor and service. It will always be an important part of me.  But there is something I love so much more. I knew what I had to do to get past my temporary personal turmoil.  I opened our nine year old sons door and he was just falling asleep.   I did what we both have done almost every single night since he was an infant. 

It is our routine and it is always the same. I kiss left cheek and tell him this is my favorite time of the evening. I then say, "sweet dreams, love you, good night." He then always repeats the same words in his little boy voice. Sometimes he or I will squeeze in, "see you tomorrow." It too is then repeated.

Words in time I treasure like no others.  Words and special moments in time that so many cops, deputies, or other emergency personnel so often miss due to changing shifts, overtime, call outs and caring for complete strangers and other people's children.   
Ryan Shay  
  
I knew when I walked away from the SDPD, soon after Ryan was born, that I was making a trade.  I don't know if I would have ever been selected to be in that front row, but as the years pass and our children continue to grow, I am at peace with my decision.  I traded the chance to compete for a front row seat to sit down on their beds in the darkness almost every single night and say, "goodnight."  Not such a bad trade.  

I am so proud of "Shell" as I look forward to now calling her, "Chief."  I am also very confident of her abilities and that of her Command Staff to renew our citizens faith in America's Finest police department.  A faith I have never lost ...


 
 
 
Ray and Theresa Shay 
 
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